Thursday, September 30, 2004

how much attention women need

How much attention women need? What means to be attentive to woman? What means to be together in coupe and live together.

It is simple and complicated at the same time. Life together is full of compromises, everyone knows it. Two caracters meet, sometimes two cultures.
But there are things, that are really simple, that can make happy any woman. I guess every woman will appreciate if her husband or boy friend says something nice about meal she cooked, or spend time, if there is of course to have lunch or breakfast together. Each woman will like when man offers her flowers and not just ask passing by, if she wants flowers. Or knowing that the girl friend is sick and feels bad, to worry about her health and ask the next day how she feels. Or when a couple goes out, tell something about her appearance, all women like compliments. So many details.............................

There are men that don't understand such small details. When woman gets angry, the only thing man can say is that she has problems in her head. Is it really so? Is it normal that a man spend whole day reading a book or watching TV without noticing that there is someone around him. I don't know if such men can understand that it really hurts. They talk about pain that other gave them but they don't see that they really hurt by their behaviour.
Can a woman be happy with such kind of man, despite him being nice from time to time.


Please, send your comments if your read it.



need time for everything:)

About 10 years ago, I went to Erevan, capital of Armenia, with my cousin. We were at her friend's place. We had very nice evening with her family. In the evening we went out together and as all girls all over the worled we started to talk about guys. My cousin and her friend were talking about their boy friends. I found out that this girl stopped with her boy friend recently. We talked a lot about it and to the question why it happened I got very interesting reply, the meaning of which I understood only during last few months.
She told me,- "I love him but he is stingy in love and in relations"

I remember I didn't sleap that night, trying to understand the meaning of these words. But it was so incomprehesible for me.

I kept in my memory this sentence for years, thinking that one day I will finally get the meaning of it. I got it, I got it now, 10 years after. The only problem is that I got its meaning on my own example. Now I can understand that girl's feelings. It took me 10 years to understand. Now I think it would be better if I didn't understand it at all :)))))))))))))))))))