need time for everything:)

About 10 years ago, I went to Erevan, capital of Armenia, with my cousin. We were at her friend's place. We had very nice evening with her family. In the evening we went out together and as all girls all over the worled we started to talk about guys. My cousin and her friend were talking about their boy friends. I found out that this girl stopped with her boy friend recently. We talked a lot about it and to the question why it happened I got very interesting reply, the meaning of which I understood only during last few months.
She told me,- "I love him but he is stingy in love and in relations"

I remember I didn't sleap that night, trying to understand the meaning of these words. But it was so incomprehesible for me.

I kept in my memory this sentence for years, thinking that one day I will finally get the meaning of it. I got it, I got it now, 10 years after. The only problem is that I got its meaning on my own example. Now I can understand that girl's feelings. It took me 10 years to understand. Now I think it would be better if I didn't understand it at all :)))))))))))))))))))