how much attention women need
How much attention women need? What means to be attentive to woman? What means to be together in coupe and live together.
It is simple and complicated at the same time. Life together is full of compromises, everyone knows it. Two caracters meet, sometimes two cultures.
But there are things, that are really simple, that can make happy any woman. I guess every woman will appreciate if her husband or boy friend says something nice about meal she cooked, or spend time, if there is of course to have lunch or breakfast together. Each woman will like when man offers her flowers and not just ask passing by, if she wants flowers. Or knowing that the girl friend is sick and feels bad, to worry about her health and ask the next day how she feels. Or when a couple goes out, tell something about her appearance, all women like compliments. So many details.............................
There are men that don't understand such small details. When woman gets angry, the only thing man can say is that she has problems in her head. Is it really so? Is it normal that a man spend whole day reading a book or watching TV without noticing that there is someone around him. I don't know if such men can understand that it really hurts. They talk about pain that other gave them but they don't see that they really hurt by their behaviour.
Can a woman be happy with such kind of man, despite him being nice from time to time.
Please, send your comments if your read it.
7 Comments:
happines is a matter of small details. If you deserve the best, you could get it. sometimes.
As I told in my previous comment be careful. Men like him don't make women happy. Belive me, I have experience. You are not loved enough. I just hope he can change, if not...................... leave him. The only advise I can give you, don't waste your life, no man merit it.
thanks for your comments. I really appreciate it. Thanks for advise, it seems it really hurted you. The same with me,I will take into consideration this option too.
thanks for your comments. I really appreciate it. Thanks for advise, it seems it really hurted you. The same with me,I will take into consideration this option too.
Dear Gabi , take it or leave it
Clitorella
thanks:)
I will try, but it is last attempt.
This reminds me of a vacation I went on with my girlfriend in Jamacia several years ago. We met a wonderful couple on the beach and ended up having drinks with them that evening. For no other reason but the way we were seated the females and the males did most of the conversing with eachother.
The next day, my girlfriend and I were talking what I nice couple they were and how we both enjoyed their company. In the course of our conversation about the couple, my girlfriend told me what amounted to be a summary of the other females life. Complete with intimate details such as a miscarriage, how many children in her family, and so on. I realized that although I did in fact enjoy the other males company, I didn't know anything about him on a personal level. We told jokes, talked about what we were doing on our vacation, discussed sports etc.
So, my point is this. Men and woman communicate differently. It's not learned, it is in us the day we are born. The second you start expecting a man to commmunicate like you, it's a ticket for disaster and of course the converse is true for a man. I think the secret in a realationship is to work towards understanding and appreciating the the differences between genders and not mandating wholesale change.
One of the earlier posters here told you that "this man will never make you happy." My advice is to not depend on any man "to make you happy" and to work on being happy first and then find a man. You'll find that the man you attract will more of the type of man you seek.
Mike
Hawaii, USA
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